Published February 13, 2009
Parents always worry about what goes on when they are not around to supervise their children. We all know that getting into mischief is part of growing up. But we also want to know that there are limits and accepted standards of behavior especially when we send our children off to boarding school.
Hazing is a practice which used to be rampant in schools and organizations just about everywhere. It seemed to be part of our fraternal and educational culture.Fortunately in these enlightened times in which blogging and instant messaging make it extremely difficult to keep bad news out of the public eye, hazing has all but disappeared in boarding schools. And that is a positive turn of events.
We asked Dr. Hank Nuwer, a nationally recognized authority on hazing, to weigh in on the subject. As you will read, boarding schools are indeed virtually free of hazing. That's because boarding schools insist on a high standard of supervision and community life designed to protect their students from any kind of harm. Most schools have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to hazing. It is one more reason why boarding schools are safe schools. They take their in loco parentis (in place of the parent) responsibilities very seriously.
1. Is it true that hazing is no longer found in U.S. boarding schools?
The good news is that boarding school hazing is not reported nearly as often as hazing in commuter-style high schools. You do get a smattering of complaints about athletes being subjected to Dazed and Confused-type pranks or minor forms of servitude such as new players carrying equipment or food trays. The bad news is that when a big story breaks, often there are allegations of some sort of disrobing, improper touching or poking of a criminal nature. With military schools the news stories most commonly are associated with verbal abuse of younger cadets and occasional raised cries of physical pummeling. The good news is that I see educators all the time installing and enforcing hazing policies at boarding schools. Clearly, any out-of-control behavior now stands a good chance of incurring swift punishment and consequences.
Can you give examples of the latter?
Yes, in 2004 several senior girls at a prominent boarding school were under national scrutiny following allegations of improper requests of younger students during a game of Truth or Dare, a game that sometimes fits the definition of hazing if newcomers are required or expected to participate. The senior girls in this incident were immediately suspended from the school and the punishment noted on their school records.
How do cases surface in the news?
Can you give examples of the latter?
Yes, in 2004 several senior girls at a prominent boarding school were under national scrutiny following allegations of improper requests of younger students during a game of Truth or Dare, a game that sometimes fits the definition of hazing if newcomers are required or expected to participate. The senior girls in this incident were immediately suspended from the school and the punishment noted on their school records.
How do cases surface in the news?
Sometimes it is a parent who approaches a newspaper in hopes additional details about an incident will be uncovered. Sometimes it is through civil litigation. In 2008 a famous New England school was sued for alleged hazing ,but the school has denied most or all allegations. That case is ongoing and part of the public record. Historically, it is interesting with military schools to see that in 1920 a court ruled that hazing was appropriate and needed at the New York Military Academy of Cornwall and ruled against Dr. Emmett Hoa of Troy who had sued on behalf of his son Helmer who had been subjected to acts of servitude.
2. Bullying has become even harder to detect these days as it has gone electronic. Cyber-bullying is now the new contagion. Has hazing gone electronic? Is there any sign of cyber-hazing?
In a way the use of cell phone cameras and videotaping and photographing a hazing incident becomes a second hazing in my opinion. The victim cannot forget the trauma. It shows over and over again on Facebook or Youtube like some demented version of Groundhog Day.
3. Is hazing illegal in any states? If so, are the laws on the books enforced?
Hazing is illegal in some form of application in all states, and actual hazing laws are present in all states except Alaska, Hawaii, Montana, New Mexico, South Dakota and Wyoming. Wyoming had a hazing bill which passed its house but failed in the senate a year back. Your question is a good one. When political pressure comes upon a local prosecutor, or if a school waits too long to call law enforcement and a coverup by perpetrators takes place, in many instances serious hazing cases merely drop off the map and are unprosecuted.
4. What kind of educational materials, training sessions and seminars on hazing are available for schools, their staff and students?
I'll start with my own. I began the "Hazing Collection" at Buffalo State College's library to place all forms of hazing research such as doctoral dissertations, videos and scholarly articles in Special Collections for any scholar or graduate student to consult so that more research on hazing might be encouraged.
I also wrote an interactive hazing program for administrators and students which is sold through The Human Equation, a risk management company. I'm an advisory board member on hazing for Security on Campus, a watchdog group, and a board member on HazingPrevention.org, a group working to eradicate hazing. It presents the annual "Hank Nuwer Anti-hazing Hero Awards" each year to honor those who stood apart from the crowd and stood up to hazing. Last year there were 70 applicants.
There also are many speakers who put on educational programs such as I did recently at the Wilmington Friends School in Delaware, a very enjoyable experience for me. A long list of speakers is available at Stop Hazing.org There has been some exciting research on hazing with in-depth studies being conducted by Mary Madden and Elizabeth Allan of the University of Maine.
Books By Dr. Nuwer
- Broken Pledges: The Deadly Rite of Hazing
- The Hazing Reader
- High School Hazing: When Rites Become Wrongs
- Wrongs of Passage
- Why Boarding School?
Is boarding school right for you? Boarding schools offer a wealth of experiences in both learning and living which will do you well in later life. - Top 10 Reasons to Go to Boarding School
There are many reasons to go to boarding school. The academics, the athletics and the extracurricular activities are just a few considerations. - Boarding School DO's and DON'TS
Here are some considerations to ponder whilst choosing schools and when your child is actually away at school. - The Boarding School Glossary
Boarding schools have their own jargon just like any activity or affinity group has. - Boarding School Myths
Read about common boarding school myths in case your perception of boarding school is driven largely by popular movies and urban legend. - Boarding School Pictures
What does boarding school life look like? View photos from a variety of boarding schools and see if you can also picture yourself there. - International Students: Boarding School Benefits
Boarding school is appealling to both U.S. and international students. Learn why boarding school is a popular option for international students around the world. - Summer Boarding School Programs
Learn several key reasons why a summer boarding school program can be beneficial for your child. - Types of Boarding School
Explore the different types of boarding school options in the US. Find which type of boarding school is most appropriate for you. - Understanding Financial Aid
Learn how financial aid works in boarding schools. - Understanding the Post-Graduate (PG) Year
Learn about the Post-Graduate(PG) Year, and how it can benefit certain students. - When Should I Go Off to Boarding School?
When should you go off to boarding school? It depends. Most students enter prep school in 10th grade. But you have choices. - Why Do a Gap or Post-Graduate (PG) Year?
Learn why more and more students are choosing to do a gap or post graduate (PG) year at boarding school. - Schools for Students with Learning Disabilities
How to deal with a child who has a learning disability. - 5 Common Myths About Military Schools
Military schools seem to go in and out of favor with the general public. Perhaps that has to do with some rather common misconceptions about what military schools are and how they operate. Let's take a look. - 5 Reasons to Choose a Boys' School
We have been hearing a lot about the benefits of single sex education recently. Here are five reasons why you should consider choosing a boys' school for your son. - 5 Reasons To Choose a Girls' School
There is a body of research which suggests that girls do learn differently from boys. So, if that is the case, maybe you should consider a girls' school for your daughter instead of sending her off to a coed school. Here are some points to ponder. - 5 Reasons to Choose a Junior Boarding School
A junior boarding school offers certain distinct advantages for the middle school aged student. Here are five reasons why you should consider choosing this option for your child. - 5 Steps for Choosing a Boarding School
Choosing a boarding school involves several steps. We guide you through the process and offer advice and help. - Benefits of a Small Boarding School
Learn about the benefits of a small boarding school. - Considering a U.S. Arts Program?
"If the arts are part of your interests and your passion, you should research each school’s available offerings. Spend time reading the school’s literature and visiting its website..." Brought to you by Boarding Schools in the USA - Girls' School Graduates Have an Edge
Exciting new research shows that a girls' boarding school can offer your daughter many advantages. - How to Apply to Boarding School
There are several ways to apply to boarding school. - I Can't Find Any Rankings!
This cry is heard throughout the land as parents try desperately to compare one boarding school against another. - Looking at Schools
"Do you like large schools or small schools? Are you most comfortable in a city, small town or countryside? Are you interested in attending a school that has a religious or military orientation? Would you like to attend a school that is only for boys or girls? These are some questions you must ask yourself before you begin your search for the right U.S. boarding school for you..." Brought to you by Boarding Schools in the USA - Quaker Education: What’s Different about a Friends School?
Learn about the benefits of attending a Quaker boarding school. - Using an Educational Consultant
An education consultant knows schools. Like any professional he has vast experience in and knowledge of his chosen field. - What About Canadian Schools?
Canadian boarding schools have a lot going for them. Great value, location in a foreign but friendly neighboring country, English speaking, fine academics, all kinds of sporting activities besides hockey and skiing and much more. - Why a Progressive School?
Sending your son or daughter to a progressive school sounds like a real leap of faith. It is, that is, until you look more closely at the kind of education your child will receive. Then you will understand the idealism in action which progressive schools embody. - Teaching in a Boarding School
Teaching or working in a boarding school is quite unlike any job in a day school.














